Options For Mediation
A lot of complexity have to be faced by the parents and the child when it comes to their separation. Each and every party has to back one another so that they do not face many difficulties in the process and if they are not voluntarily backing up Each Other, they can hire a third party so that the decisions can be taken easily. A lot of decisions have to be taken when the parents get separated and there has to be a correct procedure in order to take those decisions as a lot of factors have to be considered to take accurate decisions and without any delay. There can be a lot of disputes which arise in the process of decision making and these disputes must be resolved. On the first place, there must be no disputes as the environment of decision making must be very calm and friendly. This is only possible if the parents co-operate with the third party they have hired who an expert in handling the situations of decision is making in such complicated situation.
Decisions not only have to be taken regarding the life of the child, the finances, his basic needs etc. but also regarding which method of mediation has to be chosen and which is the most suitable one for you. There are different mediators who are specialised to handle a lot of different situations and you can choose from the different options you have regarding mediation and communicate this to your mediator. As you can decide the time that can be taken in the process of mediation, the options you have a also taken by you so that the time and effectiveness of mediator is determined.
Rhino Family mediation and the options we provide
There are some options which are left with you when the parents get separated and these options can be decided by a mutual consent so that all the decisions regarding the process of separation and the security of the life of the child are decided. The experts recommend that you must hire a mediator in the whole process so that after that if you choose any of the further options, you can be helped by him as he knows all the formalities that have to be fulfilled while the situation is being handled by you through another option. You can be choosing the option of face to face discussions in which there is a possibility of a dispute and an unproductive argument which can lead to delay in decision making and the life of the child will suffer eventually. There are some merits and demerits of each and every option and the mediator will be helpful in telling you all the merits and demerits of each and every option you have. There are some merits of the face to face discussions as well and these are that the decisions can be taken very quickly and effectively keeping in mind all the factors of separation.
You can hire a solicitor which also has some merits and demerits. It is not recommended to get the services of the court in most situations as there are a lot of formalities and this will waste your time and effort. There is also a demerit of unknown decisions taken by the court without your consent which is not the case with the mediation process. If the parents are not interested enough in the life of the child they can also choose to do nothing in the whole case of separation.
At the end it is recommended to hire a mediator on the first place who will help you to choose the best option according to your situation and you will have no problems in fulfilling any formalities of any other option you have.